SO Support

Articles by Julie Freeman of interest to significant others

Julie is the wife of a crossdresser who has been active in the gender community for over twenty years, particularly with significant others and couples groups.  She has contributed to many gender newsletters and magazines over the years and currently writes articles on gender issues for the Diablo Valley Girls newsletter, Devil Woman.  Many of her articles deal with the effect crossdressing has had on her relationship with her husband, family, and friends. Julie has compiled many of her articles into a book, A Significant Other View by Julie Freeman, which is available at She can be reached at

The Value of Support A Different View Always Asked Another Closet
The Issue of Trust Hormones Ups and Downs Loneliness
Despair Relationships Self-Esteem Significant Differences
Pushing the Envelope Comfort Zone Significant Fears Difficult Times
Giving Advice Looking Beyond Maternal Instinct Message from an SO
Misconceptions No Such Place Secrets Oops
Don’t Call Me a Lesbian Relative Consideration Peace of Mind What Wives Fear